How Does a Chef’s Family Celebrate Thanksgiving?

Thanksgiving.How does a chef's family celebrate Thanksgiving

I’m curious what comes to your mind when you hear that word.

Do you think turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, time with family, etc?

Or do you think, another holiday by myself, can’t wait ’til January so I can see my chef/husband, etc.

All of those things above come to my mind as the wife of a chef.

Thanksgiving is actually one of our favorite holidays.  God has blessed us with so much and we love talking about that with our girls.

We also love food!  (Big surprise.)  Brown butter mashed potatoes, maple roasted root vegetables, green bean casserole, cornbread stuffing, vanilla bean whipped potatoes, pumpkin cheesecake, rice imperative . . . and turkey (my least favorite part).  Technically I’m making roasted heirloom turkey, according to my husband’s recipe, but even with the fancy title, I would be just fine if we left that out and just enjoyed all the sides and desserts.

I also like the weeks leading up to Thanksgiving as there is so much “food talk” with friends.  We tend to get a lot of food questions from family and friends (thus the reason for this Preparing for Thanksgiving page from my chef/husband), but I love it!  I love hearing about everyone’s favorite recipes.  I LOVE hearing one of my friends tell everyone about how she broke down her turkey and how AMAZING it turned out last year.  I love all the Thanksgiving crafts the girls bring home from school telling what they are thankful for.  Maybe I should say I just love November.  However, the Thursday that the majority of the United States celebrates Thanksgiving is not the highlight of my month. (more…)

Are You Really a Chef or is That Your Halloween Costume?

Tom Small Emulsified FamilyAs a chef, my husband is often asked questions when he’s in the grocery store during the work day with his chef coat on.  I guess if I was looking at an ingredient in the store and saw a chef walk up, I would probably ask a question too.

However, Halloween is a bit different.

“Excuse me.  Are you a really a chef or is that just your Halloween costume?”

No.  I just went to all the trouble to have a restaurant group logo and my name embroidered on a coat.  AND I chose to embroider Culinary Director instead of Chef.

Haha!

That was apparently the question of the day as he was out and about running errands on Halloween.  He obviously didn’t respond that way, but it’s pretty funny if you think about it. (more…)

Preparing for Thanksgiving

Preparing for Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is one of my favorite holidays, even though my chef/husband always has to work.  It’s a time to gather with family and friends, on the actual day or somewhere around then, and give thanks for everything we have been blessed with.

As far as how our family celebrates Thanksgiving, my chef/husband leaves the house early in the morning to cook for about 1,000 people in the restaurant.  (Most of the work is done ahead of time of course!)  The girls and I usually celebrate with friends or family and then we enjoy our family Thanksgiving meal (which I’ve prepped for all week long) the day after, usually while decorating for Christmas or watching a Christmas movie.  I’ve come to treasure the day after Thanksgiving far more than the actual day.  🙂  (You can read more about this here if you are interested.)

Because of my husband’s career as a chef, we get asked a lot of questions about preparing for Thanksgiving.  He’s written some tips (see below) and filmed a video on the Thanksgiving meal that many of our friends and family have found helpful and I hope you will too.  My chef/husband is a big believer in prepping as much of the Thanksgiving meal ahead of time to make the actual day more relaxing.

Preparing for Thanksgiving

By: Tom Small

I have to admit I am pretty excited for Thanksgiving to come.  There are lots of reasons to look forward to the day: an opportunity to catch up with family and friends, a few moments of being thankful for how fortunate we are, the start of the Christmas season, and of course Thanksgiving dinner.  I mentioned the dinner out of some felt need to minimize my excitement, but as a chef (and food lover) I have always considered Thanksgiving to be one of my favorite food experiences of the year.

I will also be the first to acknowledge that Thanksgiving is not the easiest meal of the year.  Many of us prepare meals at home for 2, 4 or 6 at least a few nights a week and those meals probably have a few components (i.e. meat, vegetable, potato).  Thanksgiving on the other hand is a completely different experience.  Suddenly we are cook for 10, 15, even 20 in a home kitchen that just isn’t designed for that quantity of food.  And it is not just a simple dinner but an elaborate display.  It is tough to pull out all the stops and execute this meal really well, even for the most experienced home cooks; we just don’t do it very often.  It is the same thing in the restaurant.  Instead of cooking several dozen of our most popular menu items a night we are preparing a much more elaborate meal for hundreds of people.

The food isn’t even the only challenge of the day…The house needs to be clean, there are often awkward dynamics with family, there aren’t enough chairs let alone space at the table.  Somehow the kitchen, despite all of this food and preparation needs to appear clean, organized and even a gathering place (seems like everyone always hangs out in there anyway).

Of course there is no shortage of advice…food magazines enjoy their best sales every year on their Thanksgiving issue.  Somehow every magazine I read (OK, there are a lot) manages to produce every year, “The Best Turkey Ever” article, shortly followed by, “19 Innovative Side Dishes”.  Even on the radio I was hearing discussion on brining turkeys and the perfect holiday cocktail.  The reality is we don’t really need any more inspiration new recipes or complex pairings; we need a plan to prepare all of the food we will serve with excellence, however simple or complex the recipes may be.

I am of the opinion that the flavors of Thanksgiving work naturally together (turkey, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, gravy, stuffing, cranberry sauce, etc.).   Each of those components can be very simply prepared (well until we talk turkey) and when they are eaten together it is their interaction that makes the meal so special.

So the following ramblings contain no recipes…I am not going to try and sell you on the perfect cocktail, side dish, or dessert.  I just wanted to share some simple ideas on how to pull off a great Thanksgiving meal, while actually having time to enjoy the holiday.

DO NOT WAIT UNTIL THANKSGIVING TO PREPARE EVERYTHING. Trying to get all your food to come out of the oven and off the stove at the perfect time so it is hot and ready at once is close to impossible, and completely unnecessary.  Most of the foods prepared on Thanksgiving do really well prepared in advanced and simply re-heated.  It’s not like serving leftovers; it is the basis for how food is prepared so quickly (usually…) in restaurants.  We make a timeline for Thanksgiving prep that starts the Monday of Thanksgiving week.  Monday is basic prep, chopping, cutting, peeling and cleaning.  Tuesday we start the pies, bake the cornbread for stuffing and start making the sides like cranberry sauce, sweet potatoes, wild rice, etc.  Wednesday we get serious; it is our goal to have virtually everything completely before we turn off the lights that evening.  When we walk in Thursday morning, everything is ready to go…no mess, frustration, hurry or forgotten ingredients.  When I prepare Thanksgiving at home, I do the same thing.  Everything, turkey included, except the mashed potatoes are completely cooked, cooled and stored in the refrigerator the night before Thanksgiving.  Some things are stored in little Ziploc bags to combine just before dinner (like the components for the salad), but all the major sides are ready to re-heat.  The turkey is already sliced and topped with a little turkey stock to protect it during reheating.  All of these dishes can be reheated in a 300F oven and then held in a warm oven until dinner time.  I promise, if you re-heat carefully there is no loss of quality, it just makes good sense.  UPDATE:  Heating the food up with an Immersion Circulator is the best!!  Here’s a post with more details!

Second, take some extra time on the turkey.  Making great turkey is a real challenge!  It’s not you, it’s the turkey.   Turkey isn’t just white meat and dark meat; it’s really white meat and really dark meat.  They just don’t cook the same way.  The breasts on our contemporary turkey breeds are really big (don’t laugh, it’s cross breeding to get more meat), they take forever to cook and dry out long before the thighs are done.  There is a lot of talk of brining, but obviously not everyone really understands what the brining process is all about (referencing the very frustrating and incorrect radio show information above…featuring chefs no less…).  So, I have created a somewhat elaborate process to get great turkey.  I use it in the restaurant and I think it is practical to do a pretty similar method at home. (See video below on how to break down a turkey.)   If it is essential that you present a whole turkey at the table, ready to carve…proceed to the next paragraph.  OK, now that they have moved on, here’s the process starting Monday:

  1. Cut the breast meat off the turkey.  Just cut right along each side of the breast bone and follow the ribs until the breast meat falls off.  I put those in weak brine (1 gallon cool water, ½ cup granulated sugar, ½ cup Diamond Crystal kosher salt) until Wednesday morning.  If you are using Morton’s kosher salt use a ¼ cup instead of a half, it’s much denser.  Wednesday morning they get roasted in a 325F oven until 160F internal temperature then cooled completely before slicing.  Cooling at room temperature will bring them up to 165F to finish cooking.
  2. Cut the legs off and put them in the same brine.  We smoke these at the restaurant on Wednesday and the brine really helps.  Since you only have 2 legs on your home turkey, smoking is probably too much work so you can add them to the thigh meat preparation below.
  3. Cut the wings off and put them in a large pot for stock.
  4. Cut the thighs off.  We will braise these with carrots, onion, celery, thyme, rosemary and Marsala for about 4 hours.  The meat will be fall off the bone tender.  The braising liquid gets strained and combined with the turkey stock.
  5. Take the bones that are left and add them to the stock pot.  Add about a gallon of water, some carrots, onions, celery, rosemary & thyme and cook the stock for about 3 hours on a low simmer.  Strain and cool.  You will use the stock (combined with the braising liquid above) to make the most flavorful gravy you have ever made.

It may sound like a lot of work, but the difference in the finished turkey is dramatic.  Note, if your turkey is still frozen, time to get it thawed out!!!  I do prefer the free range turkeys (they just have more flavor), but the standard grocery store turkey can be pretty good too.  Just make sure they aren’t pumping it full of weird chemicals.  If you do want the carve at the table turkey I would recommend brining the entire turkey in the weak brine above for a couple days then cooking the turkey upside-down for 2/3rds of the cooking time (to protect the breasts).  If you want more color on the skin, turn the broiler on low for a few minutes and watch carefully; the skin will brown up very quickly.

I hope these ideas are helpful to you as you prepare and enjoy Thanksgiving with family and friends.  I could probably ramble on forever.  Let me know if you have any specific questions…I will check the comments and respond if anything comes up.

–Tom

 

Happy Birthday Chef!

So how does a chef celebrate his birthday?  By working of course.  And not just working, but getting up at 4am to open the restaurant.  The only good thing about that (besides that he has a job and I’m grateful we can pay our bills), is that meant he was home to have dinner with us!

After being gone from the house for 12 hours, he came home to 3 very excited little girls who were ready for him to open the presents they had for him (the minute he walked in the door).

What do you get a chef for his birthday anyways?  Top Ramen?  Lol – no, but he probably would have loved it.

We decided that instead of getting him things that he really doesn’t need or have time to use, we’d each pick something special to do with him and give that to him.  My chef/husband doesn’t have a lot of free time (BIG SURPRISE) so the items he has for his “hobbies” unfortunately do not get used that often.  We tried this last year and we all loved it.  It gives each of us a special date with just him (sometime during the next month.) (more…)

40 Things You Might Not Know About Me on My 40th Birthday

Today is my 40th birthday.  I think that officially makes me old.  I’m not sure how I feel about that.  I’ll have to get back to you . . .

This is where I'd like to be today as I celebrate my birthday - on a cruise, sitting next to my husband, watching the kids swim while enjoying a movie and a drink.  Instead I'll be at home, taking kids to school, saying goodbye to my husband as he goes off to a long day at the restaurant.  Just another day . . . except now I'm officially old.

This is where I’d like to be today as I celebrate my birthday – on a cruise, sitting next to my husband, watching the kids swim while enjoying a movie and a drink. Instead I’ll be at home, taking kids to school, saying goodbye to my husband as he goes off to a long day at the restaurant. Just another day . . . except now I’m officially old. Yeah!

Today as I celebrate, here are 40 random things about myself that you might not know.

  1. Only 2 people have ever called me by the name “Jen.”  Everyone else has called me Jennifer.  (Thank goodness!!)
  2. I’m 6’ 1” tall and my last name is Small.  Fortunately this was not my last name until I was 20 so I didn’t have to go through junior high and high school hearing jokes about this.  Now I love it and it makes for a fun conversation in the grocery store.
  3. I don’t really enjoy reading.  (Don’t tell any of my past students.)
  4. I don’t really enjoy cooking that much either.  Thank goodness I am married to a chef and never have to cook for myself.  (HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!)
  5. I wanted to be a Mom and a teacher ever since the 3rd grade.  I became a teacher in 1996 and a Mom in 2004.
  6. I love Butterscotch Krimpet TastyKakes, but live on the west coast and they do not sell them here.  Boo!  If you live on the east coast, eat an extra one for me today in honor of my birthday!
  7. I love all things Disney.
  8. I miss living near In-N-Out.
  9. I started dating my chef/husband when I was 15.
  10. My chef/husband is the only boyfriend I ever had.
  11. I am a Christian.  You can find my testimony here.
  12. I LOVE homemade Greek yogurt sweetened with maple syrup.
  13. I am addicted to chapstick and have it with me at all times.
  14. When we started dating, I played the piano better than my chef/husband.  I stopped practicing and he practiced a lot.  He can now play whatever he wants and I have to practice just to play something easy.
  15. We’ve moved 7 times in our 19 years of marriage.
  16. I have a small website development business that I do in the peace and quiet of our home.
  17. I hate to exercise but love to eat and love the results so I endure the torture 2 times a week.
  18. I have a BA from Azusa Pacific University in Liberal Studies with a minor in Spanish.
  19. I really have no athletic ability at all which is unfortunate because of point #2 above.
  20. I went to a private Christian school all the way through college.
  21. We got married on the Queen Mary in Long Beach, CA.
  22. When someone asks me my favorite food, I usually say pizza.  Not sure it’s really my favorite, but it’s usually what comes to mind first.
  23. My favorite place to shop is Nordstrom.  Unfortunately it’s usually just window shopping . . .
  24. I care too much about what people think.
  25. I struggle with worrying about the future.
  26. My Mom died when I was 27.  I really miss her a lot.
  27. I am a morning person.
  28. I am not a night person.
  29. I love to sleep.
  30. My current favorite song is “Blessings” by Laura Story.
  31. I started working out last year to make new friends.  I ended up losing a few pounds, 2 sizes and gaining many new friendships.
  32. Every Thursday and Sunday morning I wake up really sore and wonder why I went to workout class the day before.  (See #31)
  33. I used to use coupons but gave up because they don’t make coupons for the food we eat.
  34. We had NO MONEY when we first got married and because of this we ate a lot of Top Ramen.  My husband still loves the stuff, but I refuse to eat it.  I really hate it!
  35. I have been to 4 different countries. (5 if you count the one I live in.)
  36. I am a horrible decorator.  Anything that looks nice in our home was chosen by my chef/husband.
  37. Over half of my wardrobe is black.  My last Stitch Fix box almost killed me with all the different colors and patterns. This might change in the future thanks to my new love of Stitch Fix.
  38. My favorite Bible verse is Philippians 4:6, “Be anxious for nothing but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.”  (See #25.)
  39. It would take me 19 hours of driving nonstop to get my Dad’s house.  This is too far.  🙁
  40. I would love to own a motorhome and travel around the United States as a family.

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