The Taste Buds of a Chef

Don’t you just love that you can ask your chef what ingredients are in a dish and they can tell you just by tasting it?

I love that when I mess up something that I’m cooking, he can taste it and fix it (most of the time. Sometimes there is just no hope and you have to start over.)

What’s even better is when you can describe how something tastes over the phone that is just not quite right, and they can tell you how to fix it without even tasting it.  That’s just crazy!

My chef/husband’s knowledge about food and his ability to taste individual ingredients in food just amaze me.  You would think that after 20 years I would be used to it, but sometimes he still surprises me.

His hyper-sensitive taste buds are definitely one of the perks of being married to or dating a chef! (more…)

The Struggles of a Chef Wife – Worrying About Their Health and Safety

If someone asked me what the hardest part about being married to a chef was, I would say worrying about their health and safety.

The amount of hours they work in a very harsh environment are so hard on their bodies.  I really struggle with worrying about my chef/husband’s health.  I know he’s an adult and can take care of himself, I just hate to see him in pain.  He will push through it and do whatever he need to do to get the job done well and provide for us.  I am grateful for that.  It’s just really hard to know he’s working in pain.

I loved this article which talks about an older chef and his need to move to a less physical role as a chef.  It’s true.  Not many people can work on the line for 40 years.  Sure, some do.  But I would bet they are in pain for much of the time.  I’m thankful my husband has recently moved into a role that is less physical labor and seems to be easier on his body.  (Although using a mouse and keyboard still cause pain in his elbow from repetitive cutting and other movements in the kitchen for many years.) I used to worry about how he’d be able to physically continue on in his career as he got older. (more…)

What Does a Chef Watch on TV?

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A few months ago I posted on Facebook that the movie Chef was streaming on Netflix.  The comments on the post surprised me.  Many of you began to comment not only about the movie, but also listed some your other favorite Chef and food related movies and TV shows.  So I asked a few more times and compiled this list of shows that chefs and their wives/significant others have enjoyed. (more…)

The Struggles of a Chef Wife: Sick Kids

I hadn’t intended for this to be my first topic in this series. But it’s what I’m struggling with at the moment!

Seeing your kids sick is no fun.  We’ve been fortunate to never have all 3 sick at the same time.  (Although now that I write that sentence, they will probably all wake up sick sometime soon, right?)  There have been times (like right now) they have “shared” their sickness with each other and just as one is starting to get better, another one gets hit with it.

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The Struggles of a Chef Wife

There are a lot of things I enjoy about being married to a chef . . . great food (when he’s home to cook), help with meal planning, having someone who can fix my mistakes in the kitchen (over the phone or via text), free samples that appear in our home from vendors, menu tastings at his restaurant, his creativity . . . the list could go on and on.  A lot of the sterotypes we hear about being married to a chef ARE true, sometimes.   Not as often as people think, but yes, occasionally they are true.

But just like everything, with the good comes the bad.  Being married to a chef isn’t about enjoying 5 course meals every night.  (And if you think it is, please stop reading this post and read this first.)  In the 19 1/2 years we have been married, there have been a lot of things I have really struggled with as a result of my husband’s career.

Now don’t get me wrong, I love that he is a chef and know it’s the perfect job for him.  But that doesn’t make it easy for either of us.  We’ve had many discussions over the years of how hard it is to be a successful chef, husband and father all at the same time.  He runs himself ragged doing just that and I am blessed to be married to him. (more…)